Six Simple Words To Get A Date

April 6th, 2010

Someone gave you their phone number / FB / IM / E-Mail. You’d like a date with this person but you’re not sure what the next step should be. I’m here to tell you the right approach because it works for me and it’ll work for you. You can use the following strategy without appearing pushy or desperate, which of course is what we all want to achieve.

If you’ve been unlucky in dating, it’s probably not your fault. I used to go about things the wrong way because I just didn’t know the right way to go about things. Let’s face it, rejection is always the worst when people don’t tell you they’re rejecting you, which is 99.9% of the time! Both men and women avoid confrontation this way, simply because it feels easier than being direct.

How can we ask people out in a way that will get fewer rejections, and if we are being rejected, we know it up front so we don’t waste any time?

Send the person a message with these simple six words:

“Hi, are you free this week?”

It is pretty difficult for someone to give you a “no” to this question without obviously brushing you off. Trying to get an appointment with someone on a specific day of the week (that you chose) is less likely to be successful, and you’ll be left wondering if the other person was genuinely busy that day. If you get turned down for the whole week, you got turned down, so move on. The only exception to this rule might be if the person is going out of town for work or vacation, in which case you might consider following up when they get back.

You might think I’m being too strict, but let’s be realistic; everyone has priorities. Can you imagine you would make time in your week for dinner with your favorite actor, actress or author? Of course you would make time! You would drop your prior arrangements like a pile of hot rocks. If someone indicates they are busy the whole week, that probably means they already have a date. Take it easy and spend your time finding that special someone instead.

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High-rollers, triads and a Las Vegas giant

April 4th, 2010

(Reuters) – Late last autumn, a Hong Kong jury convicted four men of a conspiracy to commit bodily harm and a fifth of soliciting a murder.

At first, the men had been ordered to break the arms and legs of a dealer at Sands Macau suspected of helping a patron cheat millions of dollars from the business. Later, a call went out to murder the dealer, court records show. But then one of the gangsters balked and reported the plans to authorities.

The plot’s mastermind, according to testimony in previously undisclosed court transcripts obtained by Reuters, was Cheung Chi-tai. At trial a witness identified Cheung as a leader of the Wo Hop To — one of the organized crime groups in the region known as triads. Another witness, a senior inspector with the Hong Kong police called to testify because he is an expert on the triads, identified Cheung by name as someone who would commit crimes for money. Cheung’s organized crime affiliation was corroborated in interviews for this article with law enforcement and security officials intimately familiar with the gaming industry in Macau.

The murder-for-hire case sheds light on the links between China’s secretive triad societies and Macau’s booming gambling industry. It also raises potentially troubling questions about one of the world’s largest gaming companies, Las Vegas Sands, which plans to open a $5.5 billion Singapore casino resort in late April.

Cheung was not just named as a triad member but also, according to a regular casino patron testifying in the trial, “the person in charge” of one of the VIP rooms at the Sands Macau, the first of three casinos run here by Las Vegas Sands. In addition, Cheung has been a major investor in the Neptune Group, a publicly traded company involved in casino junkets — the middlemen who bring wealthy clients to Macau’s gambling halls. Documents show that his investment allowed him a share in the profits from a VIP gambling room at the casino.

An examination of Hong Kong court records, U.S. depositions from the former president of Sands, and interviews with law enforcement and security officials in both the U.S. and Macau, reveals a connection between Las Vegas Sands and Cheung — ties that could potentially put Sands in violation of Nevada gaming laws.

The Reuters investigation is a collaboration with the Investigative Reporting Program at University of California, Berkeley.

U.S. casinos operating in Macau are all headquartered in Nevada and must comply with that state’s laws which prohibit “unsuitable” associations that “discredit” its gaming industry. Those laws are meant to keep organized crime figures out of the casinos.

Leading up to its public offering in Hong Kong last November, Sands China, a subsidiary of Las Vegas Sands, acknowledged the risks of working with gaming promoters — another term for junkets: “If we are unable to ensure high standards of probity and integrity of our Gaming Promoters with whom we are associated, our reputation may suffer or we may be subject to sanctions, including the loss of (Sands’ Macau gaming license,)” the company wrote in a public filing.

Randall Sayre, a member of the Nevada Gaming Control Board that monitors casino compliance, declined to comment specifically on Sands Macau, writing in an email that the state “takes no public position on suitability … without a full investigative work-up.”

A gaming official, who insisted upon anonymity, said: “This relationship (with Cheung) would be of concern to Nevada authorities. You’re talking about direct ties to bad guys.” Another said the agency is monitoring the situation.

Las Vegas Sands issued a statement saying, “to our knowledge, Mr. Cheung Chi Tai is not listed as a director or shareholder” with any of the gaming promoters the company uses in Macau, but declined to comment further.

Sands was the first U.S. operator to cash in on the Chinese passion for gambling when it entered Macau in 2004 after the government opened the casino market to outsiders.

Since reverting to China in 1999, Macau, an hour away from Hong Kong by ferry, has flourished as one of the world’s wealthiest cities. The territory’s economy has soared in recent years — much of the wealth generated by the enclave’s casinos.

Indeed, the former Portuguese colony has become a playground for China’s nouveau riche. And the gleaming neon red lights of the Sands Macau casino are the first sights a visitor takes in as the ferry approaches Macau.

THE JUNKETS

The link between Macau’s gambling industry and organized crime may be an open secret, but it has come under increasing scrutiny lately. Within the last two weeks, MGM Mirage said it would give up its holdings in New Jersey in response to pressure from the New Jersey Division of Gaming Enforcement. The state agency had said that Pansy Ho, MGM Mirage’s partner in Macau and the daughter of casino tycoon Stanley Ho, was an “unsuitable” associate, an assertion stemming from the agency’s belief that her father has links to organized crime.

The involvement of the triads in Macau’s casinos is centered on the murky and highly profitable junket business. The VIP sector brought in $9.9 billion last year, two-thirds of the enclave’s total gambling revenues.

Macau has about 187 licensed junket operators, said Manuel Joaquim das Neves, director of Macau’s Gaming Inspection and Coordination Bureau.

The junkets are crucial because they ensure the flow of capital by extending credit to gamblers, often millions of dollars on a visit. They assume responsibility for collecting on their loans — at times indelicately, authorities say.

They also often assume management of the private VIP rooms. And while many law-abiding junkets are active in Macau, experts say the industry is highly susceptible to criminal influence given the extra-legal functions and opaque environments in which they work.

In an interview, Dan Grove, a former agent for the FBI who oversaw security for Sands Macau in the first few years after its opening — and before the casino became involved in junkets — characterized pressure from triads to work with the casino as “immense.”

When known crime figures applied directly for contracts, blocking them was easy, Grove says. But if legitimate professionals submit applications and then sub-contract the work to the triads, detecting such ties was more difficult if not impossible.

JUMBO BOOM

Cheung Chi-tai’s ties to Sands Macau came through such a multi-tiered arrangement. His solely owned company, Jumbo Boom Holdings, provided capital for another firm, now called Neptune Group, to acquire a stake in Hou Wan, a junket operator. Hou Wan was entitled to profits from Sands Macau’s Chengdu VIP room.

Cheung owned more than 8 percent of Neptune Group in 2008, according to public filings with the Hong Kong stock exchange. That made him a substantial shareholder when the call for the dealer’s murder went out.

When asked about Cheung, Nicholas Niglio, Neptune’s chief operating officer, said: “I’m not familiar with him at all.”

After a reporter showed him Neptune’s 2008 annual report listing the firm’s substantial shareholders, including Cheung, Niglio declined to respond specifically. Cheung does not appear in Neptune’s 2009 annual report.

Niglio said Neptune wasn’t a junket itself but invests in VIP junkets that operate at the Sands Macau, the Venetian Macau and Galaxy Entertainment’s StarWorld casinos. He said Neptune now had a 20 percent stake in Hou Wan, a junket operator that runs around 20 VIP tables at the Sands Macau.

In Neptune’s public filings three years ago, Cheung was described as a “merchant in Hong Kong” whose company “generally does not engage in underwriting business and has no underwriting experience as at the date of this announcement.”

While Niglio described Neptune merely as an “investor” in junkets, trial testimony placed Cheung inside the casino’s private room.

According to testimony by Siu Yun-ping, aka the “God of Gambling”, who won about HK$100 million ($12.9 million) between August 2007 and January 2008 at various casinos, Cheung was “the person in charge” of the Chengdu Hall, one of the VIP rooms that Siu frequented.

Las Vegas Sands, however, has said it maintains management of all its VIP rooms, though it acknowledges working with gaming promoters to attract customers.

FRIGHTENED AWAY FROM THE SANDS

A triad member turned informant named Lau Ming-yee testified that he, and the five men who would be convicted of engaging in triad activities, referred to Cheung as “the boss.”

Cheung, however, didn’t appear in court and was not charged. Hong Kong police declined to answer detailed inquiries on why this was so. In an emailed response, authorities acknowledged only that a 49-year-old man surnamed Cheung was arrested in connection with the case but “released after legal advice was sought due to insufficient evidence.”

Attempts to determine Cheung’s current whereabouts with the Hong Kong police and U.S. gambling industry sources in Macau were unsuccessful.

The judge in last year’s murder-for-hire case, Madame Verina Bokhary, said in passing sentence that, “I bear in mind of course that, behind the scenes, there is a person or are persons even more blameworthy than any of them.”

In the summaries of the trial called “particulars of offense” the judge identified Cheung by his Cantonese nickname, “Tsang Pau,” or “explosive money maker.”

Siu, the “God of Gambling” suspected of colluding with the dealer at the Sands Macau, testified that he had been attacked, his house had been set aflame and that his son had received threatening phone calls. “As a result of Tsang Pau (Cheung), he (the witness) was frightened away from the Sands Casino,” according to the judge’s summary.

Macau’s regulator Neves acknowledges that the junket business in Macau has links to organized crime, though he says it is less prevalent and more under control than in the past.

“This kind of business certainly involves people related to organized crime,” he said. “That’s why we established the license for just a year. Every year, they (the junket operators) must renew the license.”

Asked specifically about whether Macau will strip the license from a casino operator if the regulators discover that it is hiring a junket operator with links to organized crime, Neves said: “It’s separate. In principle, it doesn’t affect the concessionaires.”

Neves said he was informed by police of Cheung’s alleged role in the murder-for-hire case. But he described the accusations against Cheung as “rumors” and said without formal charges being brought against him, he would be free to continue to operate in Macau.

“If he (was) condemned by the Hong Kong court … if he was arrested and condemned … we wouldn’t allow him to run the junket,” he said. “In this kind of case we must deal very carefully … Sometimes if we use this (rumor) to deny the license, he can put us in court.”

Unlike Las Vegas, where casinos tend to have direct relationships with their VIP customers, Macau’s casinos rely on junket operators to bring them the majority of their high rollers, who might easily lose US$1 million in an evening.

THE $64,000 BET

On a late Friday night in February, gamblers were exchanging wads of golden one thousand Hong Kong dollar banknotes ($130) for expensive chips in the exclusive and restricted VIP gaming rooms of the Sands Macau.

The labyrinth of rooms — decorated with classical Greek columns, Italian marble and chandeliers — were largely filled with mainland Chinese clients at high-stakes Baccarat tables.

The atmosphere was smoky, hushed and privileged, as casino employees kept watch. The rooms seemed a world removed from the mass market gaming floors below.

At the “Luoyang” room, named after a gritty Chinese city, most gamblers were Mandarin-speaking mainland Chinese, who constitute more than half of Macau’s VIP gamblers. As two Reuters reporters looked on, a middle-aged woman with diamond bracelets staked a single HK$500,000 ($64,440) bet — and shrugged off the loss.

A supervisor of the VIP floor and several employees said the Chengdu hall – the room that Cheung Chi-tai ran, according to the court testimony — has been renamed.

Most VIP gambling in Macau is leveraged: gamblers usually bet more than their cash on hand. This is particularly true of mainland Chinese high-rollers who, because of Beijing’s strict capital controls, are limited to carrying the equivalent of US$5,000 in renminbi per trip when they leave China. Macau’s six publicly listed casino operators lend to only a small minority of their patrons, according to company filings. That is because collection of gambling debt is illegal in China and Macau forbids casinos from writing off their bad or uncollectible debts.

Concerned that junkets with possible links to organized crime could harm their businesses, some U.S. casino executives were reluctant to enter Macau. Harrah’s Entertainment Inc , the world’s largest casino operator, decided not to bid for a gaming concession there. Michael Chen, Harrah’s president for Asia, said in an interview with Reuters last year that the company worried that its regulators around the world would not permit it to run casinos in Macau.

That issue was front and center in the official report released by New Jersey gaming regulators in mid-March regarding MGM Mirage’s partnership with Pansy Ho. Regulators cited the junket influence within her father’s VIP rooms as a prime concern. “The VIP rooms in (Stanley Ho’s) casinos provided organized crime the entry into the Macau gaming market that it had previously lacked,” the report said.

When Sands first won a license in Macau in 2002, it was paired with Hong Kong-based casino operator Galaxy Entertainment Group, but the U.S. company ultimately ended the arrangement. William Weidner, the former president of Sands, in a deposition for an unrelated Nevada court case in 2007, cited Galaxy’s intent to run the VIP rooms in the traditional Macau style as one of the reasons for the split.

“These guys want to do VIP rooms the way they … do them in Macau where the … triad guys run them because they’re the only ones that can grant and collect credit in mainland China, and they smuggle the renminbi across the border,” he said. “I can’t do that business. That’s the way they want to do it, so I can’t do it.”

Sands’ major competitor, Wynn Resorts, said the company would decline its Macau gaming concession if it was barred from extending credit and collecting debts directly in an effort to avoid the junket system, according to company filings.

But the U.S. companies realized soon enough that they could not compete with local casinos without junkets.

China’s high rollers tend to prefer the personal, informal relationships of the junkets, experts say, and often demand a level of anonymity incompatible with the credit applications required by the casinos.

LOWER PROFILE

While triads remain active in Hong Kong, the gangs have burrowed deeper into mainland China including cities like Chongqing and retain a strong imprint in Macau. The triads are believed to have originated as a rebel grouping in the early Qing Dynasty formed to help overthrow the Manchu regime.

Ko-lin Chin, a professor at Rutgers University and one of the foremost experts on Asian organized crime, disputes the regulator’s contention that the triads are less prevalent in Macau. But he said they do keep a lower profile than before internationally owned casinos entered the market and revenues grew from $2.26 billion to $15 billion today.

Even if crime groups are involved in the junket business, he says, with the casinos making so much money, the government reaping huge taxes, and the citizens of Macau enjoying full employment, there is scant political will to remove them.

“No one wants to crash the party,” he said. “This is a feel-good story.”

(Reporting by Reuters in Macau and Hong Hong and Matt Isaacs in San Francisco and Las Vegas; editing by Lowell Bergman, Jim Impoco and Claudia Parsons)

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Bob Dylan ‘cancels’ Asia tour

April 4th, 2010

Bob Dylan has cancelled several legs of an Asian tour after Beijing refused to give him permission to perform in China, a newspaper reported Sunday. Dylan originally planned to play in China, Hong Kong and Taiwan, following his multi-city tour of Japan last month, the Sunday Morning Post said. Tour organisers, Taiwan-based Brokers Brothers Herald, announced in January that Dylan would be performing in Hong Kong on April 8, but there was little subsequent promotion, the report said. When permission for dates in Shanghai and Beijing was not granted by the Chinese government, the company pulled the other Asian dates. “China’s Ministry of Culture did not give us permission to stage concerts in Beijing and Shanghai, so we had no alternative but to scrap plans for a Southeast Asian tour,” Jeffrey Wu, the promoter’s chief of operations, was quoted as saying.

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78 arrested in Tuen Mun triad crackdown

April 1st, 2010

Police have shut down a triad syndicate active in selling drugs to youngsters in Tuen Mun, arresting 78 people including the syndicate mastermind and core members.

The crackdown began yesterday following five months of extensive investigation and planning after an undercover operation against the triad society began in November.

Police officers arrested the 68 men and 10 women, aged 13 to 40, for offences including dangerous drugs trafficking, unlawful assembly, claiming to be a triad society member, inviting others to become a triad society member and criminal damage.

They also seized 40g of ketamine, 10g of methamphetamine – commonly known as ‘ice’, and a large quantity of weapons including water pipes, wooden rods, hoods and mask. Six young drug dealers aged 15 to 20 were also arrested.

Investigation showed the core triad members exploited the younger members to sell drugs to their peers in parks, housing estates, and entertainment premises.

Some of those arrested had been involved in illegal debt-collection activities in which they splashed red paint onto debtors’ flats in housing estates.

These triad gangsters were also involved in illegal assembly in parks, housing estates, and entertainment establishments in the district and caused nuisance to the public. Police arrested 66 people for illegal assembly and wounding.

Of the 78 arrested people, 69 have been charged and will appear in Tuen Mun Magistracy tomorrow. The rest have been released on bail.

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Book Choice of the Week: Ugly Americans

March 9th, 2010

Malcolm had heard of this sort of place before. The Japanese name for it loosely translated to “sexual harassment club.” The women were paid “actresses”; the male customers were usually mid- level managers looking for something a little different from the ubiquitous brothels and hostess bars. The decor of these places was as varied as the perverse imaginations of their clientele: underground spaces made up to look like subway cars, corporate offices, hospital hallways, even high schools. The men paid a fee for entry, then were allowed to do whatever the hell they wanted. Malcolm felt his cheeks redden as he watched one of the men re- moving the skirt of one of the high-school girls. A second man was on his knees in front of her, running his hands up beneath her shirt. Malcolm’s insides were churning, a mixture of disgust and, despite his revulsion, excitement. That was how it was in Japan, a near- constant state of conflict. He knew that for the Japanese men in this place there was no conflict. What went on below the waist had no bearing on morality. To the Japanese, sex was a bodily need, no different from breathing or eating. But Malcolm was a twenty-six-year-old kid from New Jersey. He’d arrived in Japan when he was twenty-two, and he still felt like a stranger in a sexually driven culture he wasn’t equipped to under- stand. “Irashai,” the mama-san said, giving his hand a pull. Come with me. Malcolm let her lead him through the faux subway car and the smell of perfume and sweat and sex, pushing between the swaying women and the groping men. He had made it almost to the other side of the room before he realized that the ?oor was indeed moving. A second stairway led down into a smaller room, this one deco- rated more lavishly if less imaginatively. The walls were covered in red velvet curtains; the doors were hardwood. There was a marble bar on one side, a large TV on the other. Four round bar tables were spread out across the space, all occupied. It was too dark to recognize anyone, so Malcolm let the woman lead him to the table farthest from the stairs. Two men were seated next to each other, one tall and white, the other short and Japanese. “So this is Dean Carney’s wonder boy.” The taller man rose out of his chair, a wide smile on his face. His eyes were bright beneath a mop of curly blond hair. His teeth were even brighter, too big and too white for this dark place beneath Kabuki-cho. He was wearing an expensive tailored shirt, open many buttons down the front, revealing a pasty, rail-thin chest. His words moved fast, his voice high-pitched and tinged with a light English ac- cent. “Tim Halloway,” he said, grabbing Malcolm’s hand. “This is Mr. Hajimoto. He represents one of our biggest clients. He’s the one who told me about this place. Real sick, isn’t it? I just love it.” The Japanese man had a nervous smile on his face. His suit poorly and was a grim shade of blue. His tie was cinched tight enough to cut off the circulation to his face. His cheeks were bright red, not surprising since there were four empty shot glasses on the table in front of him. Malcolm took the empty chair across from them and turned back to Halloway. He had never met the man before, but he had certainly heard the stories. A derivatives trader, Halloway had graduated from Oxford and had a business degree from the London School of Eco-nomics. He had been in Tokyo for twelve years and was probably worth more than ten million dollars. At thirty-six, he had five girl- friends, all of whom were under twenty-three. And he was most likely addicted to methamphetamine. He was also one of the best traders in Asia, and his name elicited a fair level of awe in the expat financial community. “I was just telling Hajimoto-san about a transactional decision I made the other day,” Halloway continued, his spindly fingers caress ing a highball glass full of reddish brown liquid. “Partner of mine, Brandon Lister, good chap, helped me hit a fairly large position hav-ing to do with the yen. Maybe four million profit, in by tea, out by dinner, one of those deals.” Malcolm found Halloway’s conversational style a bit hard to fol- low; the words ran together and there didn’t seem to be obvious breaks for punctuation. “So we decided to celebrate,” Halloway sped on, tapping his other hand against the table. “Rented out a hotel room in Roppongi, the ambassador suite at the Royal. You know, the one with the gold- plated sinks.” Malcolm nodded. Despite his best efforts, his gaze drifted past Halloway to the nearest table. More businessmen like Hajimoto, all at varying levels of inebriation. Halloway continued, his voice rising as his accent seemed to deepen. “I called an agency I’d heard about from one of my colleagues. Best around, he’d told me. I ordered up two girls. Asked that they be tall and thin and friendly, if you know what I mean.”

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China ‘extradites’ Taiwan politician

March 7th, 2010

A fugitive Taiwanese politician who fled to mainland China to escape a jail term has been returned to the island, television pictures showed. Pai Hung-sen, former council speaker of the central Changhua County, was handcuffed upon arrival at Taipei’s Sungshan airport. Mr Pai was sentenced to three years and ten months in jail by the High Court for embezzling government funds. He fled a hospital in December where he was being treated for heart disease. The report said he was arrested in Fujian province last week and sent back to Taiwan under an agreement signed between Taipei and Beijing.
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Youth anti-drugs campaign faces hurdles

March 5th, 2010

The chairman of the Action Committee Against Narcotics, Daniel Shek, has said the government will allocate part of the 3 billion dollar Beat Drugs Fund to strengthen its anti-drug messages among young children. The move comes after a recent study found more and more young children had been taking drugs. However, Professor Shek said there were difficulties faced by the government in expanding measures to tackle the problem.
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Arrest made over acne drug sales

March 2nd, 2010

A woman has been arrested for trying to sell an unregistered pharmaceutical product on an internet auction site. The 42 year-old had allegedly put up for sale an acne medication that contains the drug, isotretinoin. A Health Department spokesman said a raid on the suspect’s house uncovered a number of boxes of the medication, which could cause fetal abnormalities and miscarriages in pregnant women. The spokesman said the suspect is thought to have obtained the drugs from a Mainland store.

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Family anti-drug publicity stepped up

March 2nd, 2010

The government says it will step up anti-drug publicity targeted at the family. The move comes after an official survey revealed that over 60 percent of drug-taking students abuse substances either at their own homes, or those of their friends. The Undersecretary for Security, Lai Tung Kwok, said parents would be encouraged to be on the lookout for what he called ‘hidden’ drug abuse. He also said more funds would be given to non-government organisations to help address the problem. But Democratic Party legislator James To said that such an urgent issue demanded the injection of more community resources immediately.

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Diet pill creator sentenced to 20 years

February 26th, 2010

Frank Sarcona was sentenced to 20 years in US federal prison for bilking more than a hundred thousand consumers out of at least $16 million. To sell his product, called Lipoban, Sarcona mailed letters to consumers inviting them to participate in an exclusive nationwide test of a new product that would allegedly promote large weight losses without diet and exercise. Consumers were asked to purchase the product in order to participate in the test. The mail order house was called the Lipoban Clinic, and the letter stated that the Lipoban Clinic was conducting a nationwide study with limited participation. Each customer was told that he or she was test participant number 731. Each letter had a fake medical insignia as well as phony endorsements from medical doctors.

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